Archive for December, 2006

You Cannot Choose Who You Will Love

Friday, December 22nd, 2006

Some people are unfortunate to fall inlove with the wrong person, some are unfortunate not to fall inlove with the person they have to be with for the rest of their lives. I’m not one of those people thank God.

I am blessed with a husband I love and who loves me back. Is he the right person for me? Lets see…

  • I wished for a good looking man … check
  • someone more intelligent than me … check
  • someone with good values (everything else follows, eg honest, God fearing, hardworker, not a wife beater, good provider etc.)… check
  • someone who loves me as much if not more than I love him … mala Alice Dixon… I can feel it check hehe

So there… I’m so blessed with a good husband, and now I’m blessed with two good looking, intelligent children and hopefully we can raise them to have good values too.

Happy anniversary to us papa.

For Those Who Feel Ugly

Sunday, December 3rd, 2006

Beautiful
Christina Aguilera

Every day is so wonderful

And suddenly, i saw debris

Now and then, I get insecure

From all the pain, I’m so ashamed

I am beautiful no matter what they say

Words can’t bring me down

I am beautiful in every single way

Yes, words can’t bring me down

So don’t you bring me down today

To all your friends, you’re delirious

So consumed in all your doom

Trying hard to fill the emptiness

The piece is gone left the puzzle undone

That’s the way it is

You are beautiful no matter what they say

Words can’t bring you down

You are beautiful in every single way

Yes, words can’t bring you down

Don’t you bring me down today…

No matter what we do

(no matter what we do)

No matter what they say

(no matter what they say)

When the sun is shining through

Then the clouds won’t stay

And everywhere we go

(everywhere we go)

The sun won’t always shine

(sun won’t always shine)

But tomorrow will find a way

All the other times

’cause we are beautiful no matter what they say

Yes, words won’t bring us down, oh no

We are beautiful in every single way

Yes, words can’t bring us down

Don’t you bring me down today

Don’t you bring me down today
Don’t you bring me down today

People always compare me to my sisters, they would say that I am the least beautiful sister. When I was younger, I got so affected that I over compensated, I would answer back and say something like, ok lang, ako naman pinaka matalino. But then I realised, it was a trap, they would not say it but they might be thinking, pangit ka na nga mayabang ka pa. So after sometime, I just got used to it, I just let them say whatever, in one ear- out the other.

There are billions of people on this planet, everyone has his/ her own idea of beauty. If some people find you unpretty, some will surely find you to be the complete opposite.

The only problem is if you yourself think that you are hopelessly unpretty. It is a downward spiral, you would get depressed because you think you are so ugly, then depression will affect how you eat and/or sleep, it will make you fat or so skinny or acne might break out then you would think that you got uglier then be depressed again and the cylce continues…

You are beautiful, you don’t have to convince everybody that you are beautiful, you just have to know that you are.